Big Sister
Imagine the perfect Big Sister. She listens thoughtfully, understands what you’re going through (because she’s been there too!), and won’t rat you out to mom and dad. She takes it all in, and then gives really good advice that you can actually use. Whether your parents provided you with a big sister or not, the perfect Big Sisters are right here and ready to dish out dating advice, love advice, relationship advice, friend advice, family advice, etiquette advice... You get the picture! We know what we’re talking about, and we just love imparting our sisterly advice.
Pimples
Hey I was wondering is it possible to get pimples down there? I'm not sexually active and neither of my parents have genital herpes so I'm pretty sure it's not that. I just wanted to be sure though! So is it possible? Kenzie, 13 from Colorado
Amanda's advice: Definitely possible. Keep an eye on them. If they don't go away after a week (or at least get smaller), then maybe you should see a doctor! Also, keep in mind it can ingrown hairs! If you shave down there, then that can be it!
Work Woes
I really hate my job. I've only been working there for about 5 months- it is my first job. My coworkers aren't too bad, management is a bit bad but not horrible- I just really hate it there. I don't know why but everyday I go into work I just hate being there a lot. I don't know if I should quit or not. I probably won't right now but I just wish I didn't hate it so much and now I dread getting any other job because if I feel this way about this job, then I'll most likely feel it with every other job. I don't know what to do. Eli, 19 from Alberta
Kim's advice: Do you hate working or this particular job? Because everyone hates working pretty much. Wouldn't we all love to do nothing and get paid for it. If that is the reason, then stick it out. If it is this particular job, then start looking for another. Once you find one, give your current job two weeks notice and tell the new job to give you some time before going in full time. Good luck!
Cheatin
I cheated on my boyfriend and feel miserable about it, and I have learned my lesson and can honestly say I will never do that to a future boyfriend. He broke up with me of course. My problem is that my boyfriend is really confused and upset about the situation (as he should be) and I can tell that some part of him wants to get back together with me. At the same time, a large part of him doesn't. He told me that there is hope for us getting back together "in the future", but my question is, do I wait around for him or do I go after other romantic prospects? I've only kissed one other guy since we've been broken up (it's been a month and a half) but I was pretty drunk and I told him about it. I want to prove to him that I'm not the same girl as I was when I cheated on him and I want him back, but I also don't want to be waiting around forever for a guy I'm not even sure loves me anymore. What do you think? emilie, 18 from Arizona
Kim's advice: It is really difficult to trust someone after they cheat and me might never really forgive you. I would definitely be open minded about other guys. Don't make out with every male who looks your way, but don't turn down males you are genuinely interested in.
I Hate Armpit Hair!
I really can't stand armpit hair! I think it looks really disgusting on both guys and girls. My problem is I really wish my boyfriend would shave his armpits but I don't know how to go about asking him to since most guys don't shave their bodies. I do know a couple of guys (straight by the way) that shave their armpits. We haven't been dating that long and I try to not show being turned off when he goes sleeveless or something. Should I say anything at all? I really don't think I'll get over it though. lolita, 17 from California
Sunny's advice: I'm sorry, I shouldn't laugh but I find this hilarious. At the same time, I do respect your likes and dislikes. Unfortunately... this might be something that you need to get over. You may know a few guys who are okay with doing it, but I wouldn't expect it to catch on as a trend. What is it about armpit hair that grosses you out so much? Is it just like an "eww, yucky!" thing? Or is it a more deep rooted "I'm going to throw up" thing? Because if it is the latter, you may want to seek a little bit of help to help you get over it, as hair is not a phobia that you should have to live with. If it's just gross to you, well... most guys won't be shaving their armpits for you any time soon. When you're dating your boyfriend for longer (I wouldn't ask him just yet), maybe you can let him know how you feel and maybe he'll consider it, but I wouldn't hold my breath.