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Fashion Photography
(Style Files)

 

 

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Published on February 8, 2010 by Ivette | No Comments | Read all recent Style Files articles.

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He’s Just A Big Baby
(Ask A Guy)

Two days ago the guy who I've been dating for three months told me we should just be friends. We both really like each other because he told me all the time that he did. We both agree that we have great chemistry together and we're really comfortable around one another. I even met his family and he met mine. Though he lives an hour away,

evmc12 | age 23 | February 7, 2010

Daniel says...

Romeo doesn't appear to be terribly interested in dating you. It's really as simple as that. Sometimes guys have a personality type that makes it very difficult for them to let anyone down. You are obviously very much into this guy and he takes you at your word when you admit this to him. He isn't so interested in you, though. His behavior toward you seems interested, but that appears to be the only way he is accustomed to behaving around you. He is using code to get you back out on the dating scene and most likely hopes that by getting you on the dating scene, he can unload you without actually breaking your heart or having to deal with the possibility of an ex-girlfriend crying on his shoulder.

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Published on February 7, 2010 by Daniel | No Comments | Read all recent Ask A Guy articles.

Tags: ask a guy, advice, relationships, dating, breaking up

A Confusing Situation
(Ask A Guy)

Dear Daniel,

Let me sum it up. Friends for five years. Then we cuddled. He complimented my eyes, hair and intelligence. Then he kissed me. We made out. He tried to go further. I stopped him because I wanted to be sure he really liked me as much as I like him. He seemed frustrated after a while but respected my wishes. Then he held me, and

KiwiBlue | age 19 | Illinois | February 7, 2010

Daniel says...

It sounds like this guy might have kissed you in either a moment of weakness or because he thought it's what you wanted. Apologizing for leading a girl on isn't something a guy does when he secretly likes her and then acquiesces to being "just friends." I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it sounds as though this guy isn't interested after all. As far as where to go next, keep being friends with the guy. It's possible he could develop feelings for you over time, but don't get your hopes up. The minute you start pining over one person and waiting for them to magically develop feelings for you is the time when you miss the person who might be right for you. If you want, you could try having another more focused conversation with

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Published on February 7, 2010 by Daniel | No Comments | Read all recent Ask A Guy articles.

Tags: ask a guy, advice, relationships, kissing, gauging interest, just friends

February CD Releases
(Music Mania)

February CD Releases

2 February Tuesday
The Album Leaf - A Chorus of Storytellers
Anchors - Music From The Future
Toni Braxton - Pulse
Disco Biscuits - Planet Anthem
Jamie Foxx -  Body
k.d. lang - Recollection
Lifehouse - Smoke & Mirrors
Lightspeed Champion - Life Is Sweet! Nice To Meet You\
Lil Wayne - Rebirth
Midlake - The Courage Of Others
Mount Eerie - Black Wooden EP
Nneka -  Concrete Jungle
Priestess - Prior to the Fire
The Soft Pack  -The Soft Pack
Toro Y Moi - Causers Of This
We Are Wolves - Invisible Violence
Rob Zombie - Hellbilly Deluxe II

9 February Tuesday
ALO - Man of the World
Canibus - Melatonin Magik
DJ Rap - Synthesis
HIM - Screamworks: Love In Theory And Practice
Hot Chip - One Left Stand
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Published on February 7, 2010 by Ivette | No Comments | Read all recent Music Mania articles.

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Parent Problems
(Big Sister)

I don't know what to do with myself right now. My parents and I have never had a really solid relationship. We would argue a lot about my grades, my friends, my boyfriends and also my involvement in school. I felt like everything I did was never good enough. My boyfriends were never approved of, not matter how nice they were. Recently I

Amy | age 20 | Canada | February 7, 2010

amanda says...

This is tough and is something I can relate to. I found that my parents weren't always supportive of what I would want to do either. Your internship sounds like a once in a lifetime opportunity and I think you should do whatever it takes to make it happen. My biggest fear is having regrets and I think if you don't go to the place you want, you will definitely regret it. You can try explaining it to them once more time, but I would seriously start looking into loans. Maybe if they see you doing that, they will realize how much you want it. You're clearly making a big decision and you aren't asking them to help support you take a trip to Cuba to be drunk for a week. it's for an internship which will teach you so much and probably Continue reading!

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Tags: parents, money, fight, internship

Should I Tell Him?
(Big Sister)

I really like this boy but I don't know how to tell him! Should I even tell

babiisunshiine | age 14 | Canada | February 7, 2010

amanda says...

I think you should tell him! I know it might be scary but the thing is, he might like you too an is too shy to tell you. If you tell him, something might come from it. There are many ways you can let him know. If you have him on MSN or Facebook, then you can message him about it, which might be easier than telling him to his face. but I must say, if you have the guts to tell him straight up, then go for it! Don't be obsessive, but just pull him aside and say that you would like to get to know him more and you think that you may be able to see him as more than just a friend. Throw in some jokes and giggles and you're set! Worst comes to worst, he'll tell you he sees you as only a friend. And yes, that might hurt, but at least you'll Continue reading!

Published on February 7, 2010 by amanda | No Comments | Read all recent Big Sister articles.

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Just Kiss Me!
(Ask A Guy)

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about four months now and he's really a sweet guy. We've been good friends for years now, and now we're in a relationship--a pretty good one. We are comfortable with each other and have great communication. The only thing is, he hasn't tried to hook up with me or do anything more than pecks and

Elizabeth | age 16 | February 6, 2010

Daniel says...

Everyone wants to feel pursued. More accurately, everyone wants to feel wanted, and your boyfriend's lack of desire to kiss you makes you feel unwanted. The first thing you need to do is settle down and work commit to work through this with your boyfriend. In the grand scheme of things, this problem is relatively minor. He's not abusing you, he's not pushing you to do things with which you are uncomfortable, and he's not ignoring you. All indications are he is trying (and wants) to be a good boyfriend. This is an issue that should be able to be resolved given a little effort. Be careful not to place too much importance on kissing. Certainly kissing is part of a relationship and it's fun to do, but the most important thing

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Published on February 6, 2010 by Daniel | No Comments | Read all recent Ask A Guy articles.

Tags: ask a guy, advice, relationships, kissing, make your move

Let’s Flirt!
(Ask A Guy)

So here is my dilemma.

I see myself as a friendly person. It's not hard for me to talk to guys or get along with them. My problem is, I am almost embarrassed to really flirt with the guys I am interested in. I guess I don't really know how to flirt! What is your advice on sending subtle signals that say "I like you a lot" (NOT "I want in

terribly shy | age 20 | February 6, 2010

Daniel says...

Well, the most important thing is you want to get the ball rolling. This type of attitude will dominate your outlook (even if you don;t notice it doing so). Remember that flirting is about having fun. Flirting is supposed to be fun, a bit of an ego trip, and doesn't necessarily have to be used to indicate you want to date someone. Keep that in mind because it's very important. Often, people can get frustrated or intimidated at the thought of flirting with someone because they think it means they are absolutely, unequivocally interested in the person they are flirting with. Sending that message is scary because they don't want to make their feelings so obvious.

The cool thing is that you don't have to worry about sending a

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Published on February 6, 2010 by Daniel | No Comments | Read all recent Ask A Guy articles.

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I heart your socks!
(Style Files)

Well I don't know about you guys but here in NYC the temperature feels like 0 and looks like frozen hell. However I'm keeping my spirits up and my latte close because hope is in the air. Yes, NY fashion week is coming to town and boy we can't wait. Time to pull out the stilettos and cameras because I have a feeling the runway is going to be hotter than usual. Anyways has anyone seen those crystallized socks by Miu Miu, oh yea their as fabulous as they sound. The socks were featured on the runway in September paired with other crystallized bags and clothing and have been getting quite a lot of buzz. As if we needed another reason to love Miu Miu, just in case there it is.

 

Your probably drooling over their awesomeness and

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Published on February 6, 2010 by Lexii | 1 Comment | Read all recent Style Files articles.

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Odd Laws
(Good Question!)

Here are some odd laws I found on this site. (click the link!)

• Alabama: You may not drive barefooted.

• Alaska: No one may tie their pet dog to the roof of a car.

• California: No vehicle without a driver may exceed 60 miles per hour.

• Florida: It is illegal to sing in a public place while attired in a swimsuit.

• Hawaii: Coins are not allowed to be placed in one's ears.

• Kentucky: One may not dye a duckling blue and offer it for sale unless more than six are for sale at once.

• Mississippi: It is illegal for a male to be sexually aroused in public.

• New York: It is illegal for a woman to be on the street wearing 'body hugging clothing', but women may go topless in public, providing it is not being used as a business.

• Pennsylvania: It it

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Ash | age 16 | Jordan | February 6, 2010

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True Intentions
(Ask A Guy)

I have a crush on one of my guy friends. I don't see him too much, but when I do, we could talk for hours. Lately, he has been acting weird around me, though. He barely makes eye contact, let alone speaks to me, and I started to think that the only explanation was that he liked me. Then my best friend told me that she was talking to

Anonymous | age 18 | February 5, 2010

Daniel says...

So does he think you're into him or does he know you're into him? You remained mute to your feelings for him while expressing your exasperation at his attitude, but you later admit that you do like him. So your feigned shock or lack of comprehension at the fact that he knew how you felt about him doesn't really add up. When you like someone, you usually give off clues that betray your true feelings. And often you don't even realize the messages you are sending.

So you're interested in this guy and you are trying to find some evidence that he likes you in return. Unfortunately, I'm just not seeing it. He is avoiding you, not seeking you out or flirting with you, and only indicating that he'll "hook up" with you. If a guy

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Published on February 6, 2010 by Daniel | No Comments | Read all recent Ask A Guy articles.

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Jealous of Friends
(Ask A Guy)

My boyfriend is insanely jealous. He read a text message from a guy I'm working on a school project with, he wouldn't talk to me all night. He hates it when I talk to other boys, talk about other boys, or when other boys talk to me. He gets absolutely furious and moody and just generally immature. I'm glad he cares about me so much, but he

Eliana | age 16 | United States | February 5, 2010

Daniel says...

In a certain way, you were being a hypocrite by getting upset over those pictures. You readily admit that there wasn't anything incriminating or otherwise wrong with the photos, yet you still got mad anyway. And this after all the stress you feel over your boyfriend's jealousy toward your friends of the opposite sex. You can't have your cake and eat it, too. Either you're going to be okay with your boyfriend hanging out with other girls and having pictures of himself with those girls or you're going to be jealous about him hanging out with other girls. You can't expect him to give you leniency and "understand" when you hang out with or talk to other guys and then be annoyed to the point of argument when he has pictures of other

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Published on February 6, 2010 by Daniel | No Comments | Read all recent Ask A Guy articles.

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Health News - Body, Mind & Soul
(Health Nut)

In the news this week...  

• What's a Degree Really Worth?
• Teen Girl-on-Girl Fighting Goes Online
• Sleeping beauty's illness no fairy tale
• The Skinny on the Mayo Clinic Diet

Top Stories

Young women urged to give up indoor tanning (CTV) - The spot was very dark, almost black, barely the size of a pencil eraser, and would bleed when Jackie Connors shaved her legs.  She initially chose to ignore it. But at age 20 while in nursing school and learning about the signs and symptoms of skin cancer, it soon would become a cause for concern.   "I still remember sitting at my desk thinking, `Wow, this is what I have,' and still trying to put it in the back of my mind of not wanting to think that it could be that," Connors recalled in a Continue reading!

Published on February 5, 2010 by Jamie | No Comments | Read all recent Health Nut articles.

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Too Shy to Flirt
(Big Sister)

So here is my dilemma. I see myself as a friendly person. It's not hard for me to talk to guys or get along with them. My problem is, I am almost embarrassed to really flirt with the guys I am interested in. I guess I don't really know how to flirt! What is your advice on sending subtle signals that say "I like you a lot" (NOT "I want in

terribly shy | age 20 | February 4, 2010

Ivette says...

Flirting may be really hard especially when you're a timid person. The best way to start a conversation is with a warm smile! You didn't really specify if you would be flirting with a complete stranger or someone close to you. If it's a friend or classmate, start saying hello to him and smiling. You can also start with some small talk and as a day passes kick it up a notch! When you feel more comfortable you can go into a little more physical contact. Sometimes being playful and silly works too, like poking! You can also have more a gentle touch and occasionally touch their arm if you're talking to them or if you're both sitting down gently tap their shoulder or leg. Be playful and fun! If you're approaching a total stranger the Continue reading!

Published on February 5, 2010 by Ivette | No Comments | Read all recent Big Sister articles.

Tags: advice, relationships, big sister, flirting, love, boys, girls, flirt, timid, shy

Trust Yourself
(Ask A Guy)

I was with this boy several years ago and it didn't work out. We stopped talking and eventually reconnected last year. We've been together for a few months on and off, and the only issue we seem to be having is sexual. He's had sex before, but I haven't. He says he doesn't want to pressure me, but then he texts me all the time with sexual

Lindsay | age 18 | February 4, 2010

Daniel says...

The answer to your two-part question is a resounding "YES!!!" Don't let this guy kid you, if you feel that his behavior is pressuring you to do something, then he's pressuring you. It doesn't matter what he says he's intending, what matters is what you sense he's intending. If you talk to him about it (which you certainly should), he may say something about just wanting you to know he's attracted to you. And he may be telling the truth in saying that. The funny thing about his messages to you is that he seems to be expecting a response - as evidenced by his getting upset when you don't. But if you're uncomfortable with needing to respond to his messages, then he needs to know that.

As you indicate, it is also realistic to

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Published on February 4, 2010 by Daniel | No Comments | Read all recent Ask A Guy articles.

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Not So Dreamy After All
(Ask A Guy)

Yesterday I called the guy I like but he didn't pick up. I bumped into him today and he was like, "I was out last night, sorry I forgot to send you a text" - or something that sounds like that. Then we talked for a while about normal stuff and went our separate ways.

I bumped into him again during lunch but he didn't even bother coming

jotyl | age 20 | February 4, 2010

Daniel says...

I think your last sentence spoke volumes about your situation. This guy knows you like him, yet he isn't doing anything about it. There aren't many signs that could be clearer that a guy isn't interested as when you practically send him an invitation to date you and he doesn't bite. This guy's behavior toward you is a picture of detachment. He doesn't answer when you call, doesn't text you of his own volition, and certainly doesn't go out of his way to talk to you. In short, he only interacts with you on his schedule. When a guy likes a girl, he makes a point of involving her in his life - even if it means stepping away from friends when she calls, sending her an occasional text to ensure the girl thinks of him, or giving any

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Published on February 4, 2010 by Daniel | No Comments | Read all recent Ask A Guy articles.

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My BF is my Life
(Big Sister)

I am really confused as to what to do with my boyfriend. We have been together officially for 2 months but we have known each other for about 4 or 5 months, and in the months that we knew each other, before we started going out, we would talk for hours everyday (literally like 11 hours on weekends) and we don't talk as much any more,

lucy | age 14 | February 4, 2010

Ivette says...

I don't really know what you're asking here but I'll tell you of what I think about the situation. It's perfectly fine to love your boyfriend but by the sounds of it you seem a little too obsessed. The kind of mentality you're exhibiting is not healthy in a relationship. I can understand that not having a close family will make you have a stronger and more dependent bond on your boyfriend but this may scare him away. You don't want to annoy your boyfriend with so much "I miss you, love you, don't leave me!" stuff. Try hanging out with your friends! If you seem to lack in the friendship apartment don't be scared to branch off and make new friends. Pick up on a hobby or get a job. This way you're busy and you don't have to think of Continue reading!

Published on February 4, 2010 by Ivette | No Comments | Read all recent Big Sister articles.

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New Movie Watch Columnist
(Movie Watch)

Hey everybody, I would just like to introduce myself
I'm Jess, 13 from England. I've written for Crush Zone and Travel Bug and i am frequently found at the Purple PJS Lounge. If any of you have any questions, requests or any interesting ideas, please use the submission box further down the Movie Watch page. Don't worry, you can remain annoymous, if you wish. It takes less than a minute and i would appreciate all of your feedback xD
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Published on February 4, 2010 by Jess | No Comments | Read all recent Movie Watch articles.

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Las Vegas for the Non-Drinking Non-Gambler
(Travel Bug)

Las Vegas is basically the term we folks that go to lots of conferences use to represent gambling, binge drinking, financial excess, and poor decisions in general. But it is more than that, I promise. As a large, full-service city, Las Vegas and the surrounding area is really a lot more than it's often lewd and notorious reputation. Though to be fair, if you're not from the area or not very familiar it is very easy to become distracted by the incessant tune of the slot machines singing out of synch in the background and a little bummed out if you're not able to hit the bars or the slots!

Perhaps the most exciting thing you can do in Las Vegas without putting down a dime at the slots or tables is hitting the plethora of extreme

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Published on February 4, 2010 by Janet | No Comments | Read all recent Travel Bug articles.

Tags: travel bug, outdoors, all-ages, boulder city, western usa, roller coasters, sahara hotel, nightlife, hoover dam, fremont street

There’s One Thing On His Mind
(Ask A Guy)

Hey Daniel,

I don't usually tell people about my relationship issues but I need help if I want to be happy. I have recently met this guy who seems so good for me - almost too good to be true. We are going on a date soon and I am quite nervous about it because of my track record with men. My relationships have never worked out for very

performer | age 19 | February 3, 2010

Daniel says...

You're giving this guy a chance precisely because he is a player. Guys who are players are very good at convincing girls (or women) they are genuinely interested in them even when that may not be the case. So it's to be expected that this guy will convince you that he wants something more, something real, from you. What you need to be careful to do is decide ahead of time what you want from the relationship. Think about some of the typical relationship issues, like how often you want to hang out, how long you want to date before you kiss him, and other things like that. If it's sex you're worried about, tell yourself exactly what you need before you have sex with him. You might even consider writing these things down.

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Published on February 3, 2010 by Daniel | No Comments | Read all recent Ask A Guy articles.

Tags: ask a guy, advice, relationships, gauging interest, detecting a player